No, you would lose bomber pilots if HTC programmed in "public shaming" as has been suggested. If you lock someone into the cockpit until you have had your way with them, then yes there will be those that either quit, or at least stop flying bombers. And, by the way, some people only fly bombers. If that becomes less fun for them, then yes they may just go off and quit. Mouse pilots are a prime example, because it's easier to gun. Even then, though, it is easy to get lost in the views and gun angles and once confusion sets in so does frustration.
I do everything I can to make every engagement with bombers authentic (as much like WWII as possible). There are a few pilots that see the setup coming (probably because they have run into me before) and just bail. I may not have found them until they are RTB, or miles from their primary target, but they still bail. So, I am familiar with the frustration from the other side. But, I also know that it means I won.