Fiancé left me....

[FLOOB]

You dodged a bullet.

[Zoney]

You should immediately go buy a motorcycle.

No, really, find something to do.  Forget her, move on.

[Curval]

Feel for you.  Been there. 

It is NOT the end of the world no matter how much it seems to be.

[Zimme83]

Did you see the warning signs?

[fudgums]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdTMDpizis8

One is on me if you're ever near me, I know how it feels.

[Brooke]

I'm more along the lines of folks who are thinking it's better to find out now than later.

[AKIron]

Life hurts. You'll suffer for a while then you'll move on. There is something to learn here. Learn it.

[Kanth]

This is really great advice for anything you are trying to get through. 

Oftentimes you think something horrible has just happened and something better than you imagined comes along. 

Stay busy. Go fishing with your buddies, golf, camping, or whatever you like doing. Might even try something new that you have always wanted to do.

Do not sit at home and mope. Life is short, make the most of it.

Most importantly do not dwell on what you can't change.

[guncrasher]

if you want to know why?  the answer is you will never know.  I am going thru the same thing right now. I realize that there's never an answer for everything.


semp

[FBKampfer]

Try to figure out if you fell for her make up and perfume. i.e. an alternative truth about her?

It was the eyes. They were grey until the sun hit them just right, and they'd turn this amazing blue. And they were very... bright and attentive. My nickname for her was Shiney Eyes.

The light in the bedroom was just perfect right around 7:00 or 8:00 in the morning through the summer. It was my favorite thing about when she'd spend the weekend.

[FBKampfer]

Did you see the warning signs?

I guess. I don't know. We were long distance while she was at University, so communication was hard sometimes. But we tried to talk regularly.

I guess I knew we were having problems, but I just thought it was a rough patch. But she just didn't put as much effort into us as she'd used to. I mean she'd agreed to marry me, and we'd just started talking about kids (hypothetically. Like, if an accident happens, it would be a happy accident). Hell, she'd even come up with names for them.

I really don't know what to think....

[Oldman731]

I really don't know what to think....

Doesn't pay to conjecture.  Really.

Now:  What's on the docket for tomorrow?

- oldman

[FBKampfer]

Doesn't pay to conjecture.  Really.

Now:  What's on the docket for tomorrow?

- oldman

I know it doesn't help, it's just hard not to. I don't always realize I'm doing it.

And I'm working tomorrow. Probably going to be a longer one too, our head chef usually pulls me for his special projects, and he's thinking of menus changes.

[zack1234]

Ummmm, no advice, but one question....How much time did you spend on this game compared to the amount of time spent with her?

What is this gibberish!

Get a motorcycle and spend all your money on YOURSELF!

SHE dumped YOU get another chick and make sure it's all about YOU!

The majority of these replies are pathetic! No wonder blokes think they are chicks and wear dresses🇬🇧

[save]

I have been living together with 4 girls, one of them I married and I have got 2 daughters with her.

My way of getting through separations is by keeping myself busy, and I always do a clean cut, with them, ie drop all contacts with them.

I have to keep contact with exMrs because daughters live halftime with me, and half with her, that's the one and only reason ( in Sweden we share 50% of belongings in a divorce, but neither do  pay something the other party after that).

My experience through friends is that you tend to get used if you accept friendship after being dumped, and if you dumped her, she still believe she got a chance to get you back.