I really would have liked to say "Is our country disintegrating" but since not everyone is from America that might lead to some confusion.
I just watched a movie called "187". It is about a teacher who gets attacked by a student and moves across the country to California to teach. I didn't catch the first 15 minutes or so, so I have no idea why he would want to teach in an inner city L.A. school, but that is what he did. Anyway, he gets into a pissing contest with some gang in the school and ends up killing one of them and cutting another ones finger off. Eventually, he gets fired (not over that, but for tutoring a girl in his home), and 3 of the gang members go to killl him for killing their 'homeboy'. Anyway, the 'leader' of this gang (or at least the chief protaganist) is the one who got his finger chopped off. Him and the teacher end up playing Russian roulette, and the teacher blows his head off while taking the kids turn. The kid then gets upset and takes his turn, and blows his head off. I'd have quit while I was ahead, but hey...
Anyway, this movie kind of got me thinking. Is our society tearing itself apart? Even in the school district I substitute in (which is not a city district) there is usually at least one incident a year where a teacher is attacked by a student. I don't believe any of them have been fatal, but there have been several teachers that were severely injured as a result of a student attacking them. One in particular that I remember happened to a teacher in my high school while I was attending said school. A teacher was pushed down a flight of stairs by a student while trying to break up a fight between two students- I believe she broke a leg (but it might have been an arm, I just remember she broke something and was out the rest of the year). Or are we only self-destructing in certain places, like the cities? And even if it is just in certain places, is it right for the rest of us to stand by and do nothing?
Also, I honestly don't understand what the hell seems to be wrong with people. You constantly hear about people just 'snapping'. School shootings, work shootings, "road rage", other assorted random violence that really shows that we, collectively, have very little regard for other people. I don't get it. I can understand being pissed off. I can even understand wanting to kill someone. I can even picture circumstances where I might actually go through with it- but I can't understand someone killing someone else over being cut off on the highway.
So, what is missing? Is it just a basic disregard for other people? A nonchalant attitude towards the wants and needs of others combined with a single-minded focus of WHAT I WANT, WHEN I WANT IT? I subscribe to the notion that everyone is responsible for their own actions... but it doesn't seem to be a universal belief by any means. Where are we going wrong as a society? Why is there such blatant lack of self control among so many people? What can we (collectively) do to impose order on these people? It seems to me that the 'justice system' isn't really cutting it. Our jails are more crowded than they have ever been, but it doesn't seem to deter crime. So how do we fix it?
Am I the only person that is seeing a gradual slide toward chaos? Am I perhaps misinterpreting stuff? What do you guys think? Also, for you non-Americans- do you notice anything similar going on in your countries?