So, until I hear a call from the religious right demanding that those who masterbate should be "fixed" in the same way that gays should be (no more, no less) I will continue to consider such calls to be hypocritical.
The call is from God himself and not man.
From what you have just written it seems like the perfect "out" in all of this is to simply admit one's sin and ask for forgiveness.
Repentence is required and is a part of forgiveness....to merely ask for forgiveness but not turn away from that sin in the future is kidding ones self. Repentence is to turn away from sin.
God gave me the fine specimin that hangs between my legs, he gave me a hand, and he made orgasms extremely pleasant. Why should I ask for forgiveness for doing something HE made feel so damn good?
God gave you what you speak of to bring pleasure as part of marriage, between a man and a woman. Many things in life bring physical or mental pleasure, yet are wrong according to God.
Remember, I didn't hand down these rules...God did. I try my best to comply, yet truthfully, am a failure pretty much on a day to day basis. It is my faith in God and his Son to which I hitch my pony....I pray daily and confess my sins...God promises to those who are in Christ, to be faithful and to forgive those sins.
We all will make choices in our lives as to what we believe or don't believe in....I made mine. Some here speak of alternatives as if they themselves are unique in how they live. I have walked many paths in my life...done many things which I am ashamed of to this day...I was a completely different human being until I realized my sins and confessed them, asking God to save me through his only Son. I was born again...a new person.
Now to those who want to speak of this experience, though you have never walked in it yourselves, and condemn it as foolishness, remember...I HAVE walked where you now walk....the difference being that God dealt with me and I responded.
He will deal with all of us, and at that time each and every one of you will make a choice....we all will reap what we sow.