Well that map last night would be much better if the fields were closer together. That is a fly high and fast type of map. It is a tough map to fight on.
They do have a furball island in 2-3 of the maps. Normally they are pretty fun to fly in. But I think furball islands and such take away from point of the game. It is tough to make progress when half your team is fooling around in the furball island.
Being new is the tough part for you. You see I've played this for around 9 years now. It takes some time to learn how to find fights, what type of planes to fly in different situations, and how to be effective in order to get kills. From a new persons perspective the maps are huge, it is tough to the find people, and you spend most of the time climbing to a fight because you die quickly and reup. This is where training and experience come in to play. I'd recommend fighting a bit in the DA when you see people in there. It is just what you described, but is meant for nothing but practice and learning. I hope that you can begin to get better at the game and that it remains fun for you. The DA cam be some of the best fights and offers you some good for experience with fighting and furballs.
As a person who only really likes to furball myself. Trust me, I understand your sentiments. But it simply takes time and practice to become better at analyzing fights in the hanger, knowing what to fly, and where to fly in order to be successful in your missions. Hope this gives you some insight.
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