There is a predominently gay town here in South Florida, it's called Wilton Manors. They have a place of worship there that advertises "love without judgement". This really struck me. It must be hard to be gay. Even now in our supposedly enlightened era homosexuality is not accepted by the majority of people. It never will be.
If had a son or daughter that was homosexual it would grieve me terribly. I wouldn't love them any less though. From that perspective I can empathaize. If an offspring of ours were to choose that life style and if they accepted my advise I would encourage them to keep it to themselves. It's no one's business what anyone does in their home. But it would no doubt be a very tough row to hoe, and all up hill.
Homosexuals may find "love without judgement" from their peers, parents and some friends but not likely from society in general.
While God in his word clearly condemns the practice of homosexuality, it is no different from any other sin. There can be redemption if one acknowleges the behavior as sinful and confesses it as such. Then with the power of the holy spirit perhaps that person could refrain from further sin. If that person were to fail, God is patient and forgiving. you can try again and again. God does not hate the person but the act, the sin as it were.
http://www.family.org is a nice site. I believe there is a link to another site for a ministry called worthy creations ministry. They help repentant homosexuals come out of that destructive lifestyle. There are many inspiring testimonies from former gay and lesbian people who have successfully come out of that lifestyle and have gone on to marry and have families of their own.
If you intend on flaming me for this post fire away. I posted this with no intention of offending anyone but merely to shed light upon the possibility of help to any who may be interested. There are concerned, caring people and resources dedicated to helping you.