The numbers weren't taht large, mars. We had 41 in the mission. Divided up into 24 or so Nikis, 3 goons, and the rest heavies.
Comfort yourself with the delusion that planning has no effect on the outcome. It makes it easier for me to roll you, like we did last night. Charon states that he felt overwhelmed. He was supposed to feel that way.
Let's look at this like another popular game...say, soccer (football for you guys on the other side of the pond).
Your style is every player kicking the ball around, blocking people on the other team, and brawling in the center of the field. Our style is to plan plays, make a concerted move against you, and score goals through teamwork.
Which is more likely to produce a win?