Has anyones wife ever cheated on them

[dentin]

Yeah I just found out last night that mine is.  I really thought I was a stronger person but I am not taking this very well...  I think AH may have broken the camels back... 

Yeah, had that experience ONCE...went to the "wife store" and bought a new one...been living happily ever after. Try it, guarantee you'll like it. 

[infowars]

Well I gave it another shot today.  i bought her a diamond she always wanted and I always said stop smoking crack around the kids....  That didn't work.  She is still moving and still seeing this other dude. 

Man this is really painful...  It will be easy for me to get another chick,  probably even a better one,  but seriously that is a last thing in my mind.  How long until that desire comes back.  Hell all my internet girlfriends aren't even appealling anymore. lol

You guys are helping me really....

[ODBAL]

Well I gave it another shot today.  i bought her a diamond she always wanted and I always said stop smoking crack around the kids.... 

I hope you were kidding about buying her a diamond.... You lost me on the crack smoking part?

[iTunes]

Never  really talk about his to anyone but here I am on a BBS about to do that very thing I said I'd never do...
When I was 20, I met and fell in love with a girl in London UK, Anyways got engaged and all the rest, 2 days before being sent to the Falkland Islands I found out she had cheated and that devasted me, All I wanted to do was to get of that Plane and go and try and fix it or turn back time, It took me around 4 years to get into a relationship again after that. If I have anything to pass on to you info it is this:
No matter how hard it will be to sleep at night on your own, or to stop thinking in terms of two, you will come out at the end in good shape my friend, hollow words right now but I've been there and by the looks of things so have others. Just keep going, pat yourself on the back and realise that your better of right now on your own.
<S> The Tunester

[infowars]

Yeah I really did...  One of the things she complained about is the fact that she ever got an official ring,  considering we got married when I was unemployed.  I thought that'd do the trick.

I guess she is just in love....  

[ODBAL]

Yeah I really did...  One of the things she complained about is the fact that she ever got an official ring,  considering we got married when I was unemployed.  I thought that'd do the trick.

I guess she is just in love....  

Didn't Kobe teach you anything, you only buy diamonds when you get caught cheating!  But seriously, don't be a doormat for this woman, her not having a ring isn't justification for what she did, buying her a ring now is not going to repair the damage her indesecretions have caused.  Value yourself, don't reward her doing wrong.  She will NOT respect you if you beg her to stay, you will be a mealticket and nothing more to her and this WILL happen again.  If she has made up her mind and thinks the grass is greener, let her graze on the other side of the fence.  Go on with your life, don't rush into anything or try and "get back" at her in any way.  She will realize sooner or later she made a mistake, and she will most likely end up doing to her new beau what she did to you.  I once heard someone say "Living well is the best revenge".  I believe this to be true.

[Tac]

The moment the line is crossed its over.

No matter if its a wife or a husband.. once the line is crossed once it only means it is easier to cross it again ...and again...

The only reason I could possibly think of hanging around such a person is if the kids are small. If they are over 18 then they should be old enough to handle it.

[1pLUs44]

Yes.

You know what effect divorce has on the kids? Last person to commit suicide at my school was because her parents were getting divorced. If your kids are too young to remember, it may be okay. If they're any older than 8 or 9, don't do it unless it's your last option.

[CAVPFCDD]

As someone who has over come drug addiction, I think a major problem is her smoking crack, I'm guessing whoever this guy is, he most likely smokes crack too. If she's getting high all the time she isn't thinking properly and so she's most likely making other bad decisions. She needs to get clean before anything else, crack is a tough drug to kick but you never know, maybe it was the drugs talking this whole time.

In regard to the diamond, i believe the beatles put it best, "i don't care too much for money because money can't buy me love." If she really does love you she shouldn't need diamonds to stick around.

[Anaxogoras]

She is still moving and still seeing this other dude. 

Wow, she doesn't give a #$%^ about your child.   I said to do what's best for the child and left it open ended, but now the choice is clear.

[infowars]

She doesn't smoke crack...  sorry that was a joke...  lol

[Anaxogoras]

I thought the crack smoking line was a joke?  When I was in college I had a girlfriend who was into xtc.  I never tried it, but an affinity for drugs over meaningful relationships is a big red flag.  Yeah, she cheated on me!  Now I have a great wife who I trust completely.  You'll pull through this.

[Rich46yo]

Well I gave it another shot today.  i bought her a diamond she always wanted and I always said stop smoking crack around the kids....  That didn't work.  She is still moving and still seeing this other dude. 

Man this is really painful...  It will be easy for me to get another chick,  probably even a better one,  but seriously that is a last thing in my mind.  How long until that desire comes back.  Hell all my internet girlfriends aren't even appealling anymore. lol

You guys are helping me really....

Do you need a house to fall on your head?

See below.

[Borat]

Yees, my wife cheated on me, with my brother and sister. Was not very nice, i have bad mental picture.

[Motherland]

You know what effect divorce has on the kids? Last person to commit suicide at my school was because her parents were getting divorced. If your kids are too young to remember, it may be okay. If they're any older than 8 or 9, don't do it unless it's your last option.

The last person? Is suicide common where you live (this is a serious question, I'm not trying to make lite of the situation)?
I know several kids who have divorced parents, and they're just as normal as anyone else.