A word of advice to all

When you are dueling some one, friendly fight or not friendly fight, please take your shots. Friendly or not, I want to know when I made a mistake. Getting as fight into a stalemate after forgiving several mistakes is really not as a great fight as you guys think. Yeah, it lasts longer, it is not a fight anymore and if there was something to be learned, I missed it since I did not die. You telling me you had shots you did not take after the fight is over is just BS. Keep it it to yourself because on my end it looks just like excuses. In addition, maybe you think you had it but I think you didn't.
Take your shots for crying out loud lol I had Shane riding in Bats plane the other day telling me how bat had the shot but did not take it. Why? Why tell me after I won? Why not take it? To me that fight was a waste of time since I don;t know what mistake I made if I made one.
A lot of this not taking the 4,5,7,8 o'clock shots comes from no one, even the so called aces, knowing how to merge without ending up head on with the other guy. Instead of trying to figure out how not to be in that situation, a typical duel has two outcomes. Every one will push hard to always end up in the HO position and hope for the no HO rule, or they will try to break early in an attempt to cheat the turn (meaning they begin their turn earlyer). That is fine but in the process of that, they give you a shot. If you don;t take it, you are at a disadvantage and you will die. If you do take it, you have to deal with them calling it questionable shot etc. So really, all you are left with is a merge after merge with guys ending up kind of HO or guys breaking early. Not really a fight. Just a dance with no meaning at that point.
In my opinion, take the shot when you have it and expect the other guys to do so. The only way for me to learn is to get shot. You telling me you had it but did not take it is not only meaning less, it pisses me off because you wasted my time. What ever you do though, don;t tell me after the fight you had it but did not take it. What you are really saying is that you won, which means that this was not a friendly fight or for fun or learning to begin with.
I am still trying to find out how to not end up in those situations. That is what I love about fighting Bighorn. If he gets guns on you, you die. That forces me to do everything i can to avoid the above situations and not get lazy and rely on the "honor" rules. And remember, just because a fight lasted long, it does not make it a good fight. It was a stalemate. A good fight to me is the I killed you in a few seconds or you blew me out of the sky in a few seconds. If it goes on longer, we both have failed