Expecting everyone to play by your own self-imposed rules is delusional at best.
Wiley.
i agree with this statement absolutely, but i also dont expect everyone else i encounter in my life to act in a manner that i do either. i am of the understanbding that people are who they are and will do what ever it is that suits them at the moment. but i do not use that as an excuse to be the one to do it first just because the other guy might
i am generally not foolish so i will do my best to put myself in a position that will protect me from the actions of others in life, but i do this without breaking my own personal moral code or standards. now this is only a game, and i do not equate a game to real life, but one thing i have learned through my years is that if you act like an a-hole in a game then you are likely an a-hole in real life. standards of fair play and good sportmanship tend to cross the virtual barrier from real life to toon land and back again.
i cannot argue against every "what if" scenario you may invent, all i can say is POOPHAPPENS! roll with it and try to have fun without acting in an unsportsmanlike manner. now yes you will always have those that no matter what you do will cry foul, but really who cares. people whine, its what they do best. if i know that i did my best to act according to my own standards then i really dont care what anyone else says.
now for honesties sake i will say that i have the advantage of sucking at this game enough that score really doesnt mean poop to me. how many times i die is irrelevant to me, hell i find it funny to continue to up from capped bases to keep the vulchtards low and hungry until assistance arrives from another base with alt and advantage. so if i make a mistake in judgment and choose to fly past a 1v1 and then get sucker shot by the bad guy i just past up a shot on, well then that was my mistake. the bright side is that there is fresh coffee in the tower and i get to get a brand new shinny clean areo-plane. in addition i get to fly back to the engagement enjoying the warm heart i get when i know that i lived up to my own standards.

live up to your own standards, but dont expect roses from everyone when you get involved where you were not asked too.