Estes,
Patience.............
There is no argument. However, your point, telling others that they can change it (which I do, when I encounter new faces who are having difficulties), does not cover, "if no one is there to tell them". We want new players to stick around. We veterans have plenty of other ways to stack the deck: plane weight, convergence, stall limiter, no tracers, not to mention the hours of practice. FOV is the only one that is set before you load the arena.