i show proof that everyone does the exact same thing i/we do, ie flying long ranges to fights, look for the better fighters in the area, fly with groups of friends
No, flippz, no one else switches sides and coordinates across countries to track and hunt people. No one else bypasses legitimate targets to pursue someone they have a grudge against.
You may personally not engage in that behavior, but your squad mates absolutely do, whether they let you in on it or not.
There is nothing I love more than connecting with a decent wingman and tackling a horde, but sadly, that's maybe 5-10% of the sorties I fly, at best. The rest are just me alone, occasionally with squadmates scattered across the map doing their own thing. Those are usually the most productive, by the way, since fewer folks run from a single disadvantaged F4U.
Just because there are other planes in the general vicinity does not mean they're my "friends" or we're coordinating anything at all.
You are a johnny-cum-lately to something that's been going on for many years, and inserting yourself into something that you have little knowledge of, beyond how you've been mislead by the guilty ones. This isn't 9-year old history. It's happening now, as it has on numerous other occasions over the last 9 years, and has been witnessed by many.