Evasion? Hardly. I have already categorically stated my belief that the only unforgivable sin is denying Jesus. I have made it clear I am not to judge- it simply isn't my place. My religion tells me that believers go to heaven, and those that refuse to accept Christ don't... but I didn't make those rules. I don't place the value.
Here's where I think you blow it in the argument- if you believe Christians are supposed to assign value to you based on what you believe, you have it wrong. The Christians are here to spread the Word, and to work for God's kingdom. That's it. All the other stuff is left up to God.
I wouldn't DARE tell you that you are going to heaven or hell. I don't even know if I will make it, so what in the world would make me believe I can divine who else will go? More than that though... the Bible says "Judge not lest you be judged". We can speak out about a condition that will bring judgement, but pointing to individuals and stating they are damned is wrong.
To me it sounds as if you take it personally that someone expresses belief in God, as if that person will now look at you as something less once it is clear you do not (which is not true). Of course I want you to believe as I do, but that certainly is no more heinous a crime as you wanting me to believe as you do. To take a worldly viewpoint on the issue it is merely a difference of opinion. And, if you choose the worldly viewpoint, it should be no more important to you than what beverage I prefer. I of course will think there is much more at stake, but if you don't believe, why do you care how I feel about it?