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« Reply #60 on: September 07, 2001, 02:44:00 PM »
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Who said life is fair?  It seems that the only thing most minorities suffer from is not a lack of opportunity, it is a lack of self esteem.  
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Greese that's far too simple.  Nobody is saying life should be made fair.  Only that no group of citizens be barred from the table.  Lack of self esteem?  Its displays of self esteem that are often condemned - we've seen comments like that in this thread.  

For you to suggest that lack of opportunity is not the problem just shows me how far you are from the experience.  You probably did not often have your peers suggest you go back to Europe.  Did they often call you a "farm bunny?".  Did you often have apartments suddenly become unavailable when you showed up to see them?  I guess you were used to overhearing your boss say "that whitey has got to go".  Did they make you wait at the amusement park rides until you could be seated with another white kid?  Do people often tell "white jokes" and then look at you quickly to see if you're offended?  Need I go on?  I can.  

Its pervasive, and much of it is sunconscious.  True, some exceptional people can overcome it, through grit, determination and hard work.  However, its unreasonable to expect everyone to be exceptional.  And its unreasonable for anyone to have to wade through that crap - life is NOT fair and its not easy.  We all have our burdens to carry - having to carry an extra grand piano just because of how you look is not something that belongs in this society.

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« Reply #61 on: September 07, 2001, 02:51:00 PM »
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Well the thing is this I am 28 year old middle class american. I have never owned a slave nor do i condone it. My ancestors didn't at least as far back as I can check I am second generation Italian American. So none of my relative were even in the US during the civil war or before. Why should my money go to pay reparations that I was not directly or indirectly involved with. And how is this money going to help anyway.

And the whole attitude of everyone today is blame someone else for my misfortune, and never ever taking responsibility for ones own actions.

[ 09-07-2001: Message edited by: narsus ]

Narsus I agree completely.  The reparations issue has no merit.  It just happens to rest on some political hot buttons that a few opportunists will keep pushing.

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« Reply #62 on: September 07, 2001, 02:53:00 PM »
"So, let me ask - why do YOU think black Americans have not been as successful as Asians? Here is your challenge - to give a really meaningful reason that doesn't incorporate an unfounded bias.

- Yoj"

One reason, I'd speculate, is the family structure has held together better in the average Asian family more so than the average African American one. Hard to get ahead in a one parent family, hard to accomplish many things in an enviroment which doesn't place family first, self gratification second.. but then again there aren't too many Asian baseball, football or basketball players out there. Don't hear any cries about discrimination there, oh yeah - they are chosen by their abilities - what a concept  :)

No simple answers, just know ole jj and al should be run out of town by "their ppl". That act in itself would say alot to me.
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« Reply #63 on: September 07, 2001, 03:01:00 PM »
Yoj, using your example, how is the backwoods cracker any less underpriveledged or any less deserving?

And perhaps I manuever in more crass circles, but I've found there to be no shortage of redneck jokes.  I needn't imagine the reaction, it's a fairly common stereotype that is unfortunately based on a very real socioeconomic status.

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« Reply #64 on: September 07, 2001, 03:08:00 PM »
"...the asians came to America as a land of opportunity, hoping and expecting to make a better life for themselves. Africans were forcibly relocated to a place where they had no future by definition... "

-oh, so it is there 'lot in life', the damage is done and irreversible and it has ruined them culturally forever. why did i assume that faced with this scenario it might occur to them to form tight knit supportive communities to overcome their predicament like asians?

Not to mention the fact that your example of San Francisco is telling. In fact, asian success is URBAN success, while the african-american experience is essentially rural until this century

- again that's just silly. rural chinese gold and railroad workers founded urban communities because it was the only place they were allowed to live in the cities. urban blacks ended up in places like harlem for the exact same reasons. the difference is that the chinese created a world of their own that didn't depend on any outside intervention and the blacks turned to crime and threw their hands up at the inequity of it all when the white community wouldnt let them in.

the outside world saw that there was profit to be made from interacting with chinatown so it eventually drew 'whites' into their world and them into 'white' society. all that can be found in harlem is crime and despair - there is simply no economic benefit on getting to know them or having anything to do with them.

additionally, you fail in your example to explain how that relates to the success of asians in places like oklahoma, idaho, utah, iowa etc - and the failure of black communities in those same states.

From there on there are a myriad of other differences - not the least of which is their second language, which, far from a handicap, helped emphasize an insular community and a social identity, something African's never had an opportunity to develop in any fundimental way

- all this gives is a catalyst by which community formation happens - it doesn't dictate the quality of the community by any stretch. if this is true then why isn't there more success in latino communities? blacks have formed strictly bounded communities whether you see that or not - it's just that the community structure doesn't supply consequence or guidance like the asian community does. (a lot has more to do with the confusian family model and asian patriarchal heirarchy than language)

In addition, there has always been (not just in America) a hierarchy of despite. Italians, Germans, Swedes and Irish have been despised at various times, but those who hated them generally preferred them to Asians, and preferred Asians to "darkies and Mexes".

Why do you suppose that is? why do some races assimilate and others dont. why is there a stereotype that claims asians are superior in math? do you mean that the 'white community' would create a stereotype that negates it's own ability? because all generalzations are rooted in facts. the more experience any culture has with another - the more realistic their generaliztions and stereotypes become. the silly generalizations that applied to asians 150 years ago are abandoned in favor of generalizations that more closely mirror actual experiences while the generalizations of blacks are really the same just unspoken now due to the media efforts of the last 1/4 century.

why do YOU think black Americans have not been as successful as Asians? Here is your challenge - to give a really meaningful reason that doesn't incorporate an unfounded bias

- i don't have an unfounded bias toward blacks as you are trying to imply - only opinions based on experience. and i could care less whether or not they match your pop culture world view that assures everyone feels good about themsleves regardless of the facts.

ex: if you have seen 10 border collies in your life and each has tried to bite you - chances are you won't walk up and try to pet border collie #11 no matter how much people tell you he might be an exception to the rule. it is an instict and has insured our survival as a species (ex:berries make sick - dont eat berries) not a race and it is not wrong to generalize based on experience no matter how much they try to condition you to the contrary these days or whose feelings get hurt. the truth stands without emotion.

blacks aren't inferior - imo, they are like a 22 year old kid that still lives with his mother in the extra room and doesnt work because she keeps making excuses for him and the dad is too limp to kick him out. he will never feel free, independant and a full man until he understands that his destiny is in no hands other than his own.

for the black community, this means a culture shift. fathers stay with their families and provide wisdom and guidance and above all consequence for bad actions to young blacks. education is encouraged not discouraged (try being a black kid that uses multisyllabic words and see how long it takes to get beat up by another black kid)

they need to say "to hell with what the white community thinks and if they dont let us in we'll start our own businesses and cater to our own kind and exploit our own demographic and take black money from white owned chains and redirect it to ourselves"

they need to say "to hell with entitlements, if your school doesnt want me then we'll start our own and grow it into something important and respectable through merit and acheivement alone" (most black schools focus on sociology instead of math, science and business - no wonder they aren't held in esteem - they only perpetuate the victim mentality)

they need to dismiss all these notions that they are helpless and realize their full potential to shine. every race has to compete and respects every other race by their ability to compete. lions in the wild won't carry one that can't compete - only our sense of compassion compels us to but it still carries an unnatural element and doesnt allow for full respect.

i dont want to see black people as helpless victims in need of support and my happy feelings - i want to see them as proud, independent and fully in command of their fate. quite simply, i want them to do what it takes to succeed regardless of the past and come into their own as a race so we can put racial problems behind us. it won't end as a result of condition and reeducation but rather as a correct appeal to the insticts we already have about success and failure.

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« Reply #65 on: September 07, 2001, 03:30:00 PM »
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One reason, I'd speculate, is the family structure has held together better in the average Asian family more so than the average African American one. Hard to get ahead in a one parent family, hard to accomplish many things in an enviroment which doesn't place family first, self gratification second.. but then again there aren't too many Asian baseball, football or basketball players out there. Don't hear any cries about discrimination there, oh yeah - they are chosen by their abilities - what a concept    :)

No simple answers, just know ole jj and al should be run out of town by "their ppl". That act in itself would say alot to me.

Actually, family structure in Black America has held up quite well.  It may not be as strong overall as Asian, but it is as strong or stronger overall than in White culture.  The single parent families you refer to are probably no more common in the Black community than anywere else, while the influence of extended family is usually very strong.  And in any case, the disintegration of the family you do see is less a cause than an effect.

As for not hearing about discrimination in sports, nonsense!  Yes, most of the major sports have been hauled (kicking and screaming) into hiring PLAYERS for their ability.  Coaching and management is still an ongoing battle.  This argument does not impress me that much.  Its not some ancient history - I remember Robinson breaking the color bar in baseball.  Black pro quarterbacks are a very recent innovation.  

Lets see where we stand - how long before there is a Black Tenor performing in major opera?  There's still plenty of high profile places that are "off limits".

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« Reply #66 on: September 07, 2001, 03:43:00 PM »
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Yoj, using your example, how is the backwoods cracker any less underpriveledged or any less deserving?

Actually, I don't see a lot of difference, given the economic condition.  But the cracker can be made to fade into society - a little education, some decent clothes, etc. Take away what makes him stand out and his lack of priviledge goes away.  

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« Reply #67 on: September 07, 2001, 03:46:00 PM »
 

huh?

EU is sorry.... will al & jj sue them next?
 http://dailynews.yahoo.com/h/ap/20010907/wl/racism_conference.html

Yoj, you are a cheerleader for your cause for sure..

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« Reply #68 on: September 07, 2001, 03:58:00 PM »
Yoj-

     Well, you have strong feelings, and for standing up I salute you (I rated you 5 stars).

     I have not seen the problem you list as though they happen to every minority, however.  The people I know all seem to treat each other, regardless of skin color, as equals.  To me, living in LA, I just don't see the problems you list like they happen all the time.  I think there is an over-sensitivity among minorities, and it's probably justified, but I don't see it.  In fact, here's a god example to illustrate my point.
      I work at a customer service desk, where I deal with a lot of the same customers repeatedly.  The guy who worked here before me (and was black) was always getting upset at customers who had problems.  He would even hang up on them (one reason he's not here anymore).  He always blamed the problem on the perception that everyone was being racist.  They, in fact were not, they just had problems with the way he handles their issues.  I have talked with several of these customers, and understand completely what happened.  His way of dealing with problems, whether concious or subconcious, was by thinking he was the victim of racism, when in fact, that was not happening at all.  He often would perceive people doing things to him because of his skin color, that no one else ever saw.  The fact he could not only spot the act itself, and then attribute it to racism, was a complete over-reaction.
     His problem, was not racism, but that he'd been taught that people are racist against him and that was the root of his problems.

     Now how to stop all this nonsense is something else.

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« Reply #69 on: September 07, 2001, 04:17:00 PM »
Maybe we should have affirmative actions in sports.  You know NBA must have 1 white 1 black 1 asian 1 mex-american 1 native Amer. on the court at all times (or whatever the proper ratio to population is).
 You know, that way everybody could make that kind of money.  Don’t just try to hire the best try to hire the best you can from each segment of society.
  I mean that way maybe even I can get some of that money. Surely even I can find a team whose quota is low in overweight/middle aged/redneck/construction workers.
 I know it's absurd but no less so than what we deal with every day.
 If you are in a minority that is not well represented in your trade and don't screw up to bad you will go right to the top, you don't even really need to be competent just show up every day and don't get in trouble.
 I find it odd that black people who find no problem excepting that black people may be more successful at a sport (ratio of blacks/whites in the sport disproportionate to population) and call it natural ability.
Turn right around and complain that the ratio of blacks to whites in coaching doesn’t fit.  
  I guess it's ok for minorities to have natural ability over whites in certain areas.
but completely unthinkable for there to be more whites who are better at something.

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« Reply #70 on: September 07, 2001, 04:38:00 PM »
Wow!  As though the way a person talked was a matter of personal choice.  I can just imagine the reactions here if you made that comment about white people from Alabama.
I don't understand these Black kids - you'd think with that quality education, exposure to so many cultures, and all those elocution lessons they had, they'd do better.
Doh!
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Are your saying it isn't a personal choice to learn to speak proper english?  I'll have to call roadkill on that one.

I'm not making reference to a persons accent either, I'm talking about the ghetto language you hear on television, the movies, and everyday life. <I.E. axxed instead of asked>

What I meant is if you sound like a moron then you will probably be treated as one, and why is it the schools fault if blacks speak mongrelized english?

Seems to me the kids parents are more to blame than anyone else, schools aren't segregated here in Oklahoma so why the disparity in speech patterns?


Actually, I don't see a lot of difference, given the economic condition.  But the cracker can be made to fade into society - a little education, some decent clothes, etc. Take away what makes him stand out and his lack of priviledge goes away

Thanks for making my point for me, as long as blacks keep believing they are victims and perpetuating the ghetto image other people will regard them as such.

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« Reply #71 on: September 07, 2001, 04:47:00 PM »
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- i don't have an unfounded bias toward blacks as you are trying to imply - only opinions based on experience.

Sorry - I fail to see the difference.  Either you don't think you have the biases that are so obviously there, or you think they have foundation.  

If you base them on experiences, I can only regret that your experiences have been such a poor representation. My experience tells me how wrong you are, and when it comes to the experience of color in America, mine are more valid than yours.

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« Reply #72 on: September 07, 2001, 05:05:00 PM »
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Yoj-

     Well, you have strong feelings, and for standing up I salute you (I rated you 5 stars).

     I have not seen the problem you list as though they happen to every minority, however.  The people I know all seem to treat each other, regardless of skin color, as equals.  To me, living in LA, I just don't see the problems you list like they happen all the time.  I think there is an over-sensitivity among minorities, and it's probably justified, but I don't see it.  In fact, here's a god example to illustrate my point.
      I work at a customer service desk, where I deal with a lot of the same customers repeatedly.  The guy who worked here before me (and was black) was always getting upset at customers who had problems.  He would even hang up on them (one reason he's not here anymore).  He always blamed the problem on the perception that everyone was being racist.  They, in fact were not, they just had problems with the way he handles their issues.  I have talked with several of these customers, and understand completely what happened.  His way of dealing with problems, whether concious or subconcious, was by thinking he was the victim of racism, when in fact, that was not happening at all.  He often would perceive people doing things to him because of his skin color, that no one else ever saw.  The fact he could not only spot the act itself, and then attribute it to racism, was a complete over-reaction.
     His problem, was not racism, but that he'd been taught that people are racist against him and that was the root of his problems.

     Now how to stop all this nonsense is something else.

Greese - you know the expression "just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you"?  I too have seen people overreact or react to imagined slights.  Just because you know someone who has it does not address the real slights that others really experience.  If you don't see it, then you're not where it happens.  Or you see it and simply don't notice it.  

I'm glad you don't have to deal with it - you strike me as someone who would be bothered by it.  However, its very real.

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« Reply #73 on: September 07, 2001, 05:17:00 PM »
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Are your saying it isn't a personal choice to learn to speak proper english?  I'll have to call roadkill on that one.

I'm not making reference to a persons accent either, I'm talking about the ghetto language you hear on television, the movies, and everyday life. <I.E. axxed instead of asked>


Poor example - "axed" is the common pronunciation in New Orleans among all the people.  Did they "choose" not to learn proper English?

What I meant is if you sound like a moron then you will probably be treated as one, and why is it the schools fault if blacks speak mongrelized english?

Seems to me the kids parents are more to blame than anyone else, schools aren't segregated here in Oklahoma so why the disparity in speech patterns?
 

EVERYONE speaks the way their immediate environment teaches them.  If there is a disparity in speech patterns it is because the society there is segregated, even if the schools are not.


Thanks for making my point for me, as long as blacks keep believing they are victims and perpetuating the ghetto image other people will regard them as such.[/QB]

You missed the point.  You can educate, train and cloth a Black person just as you can the cracker - but he doesn't become invisible in society.  And as long as whites keep believing racism is a myth imagined by blacks it will continue.

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« Reply #74 on: September 07, 2001, 05:50:00 PM »
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Sorry - I fail to see the difference.  [qb]

hmmm - you don't see the difference between an unfounded bias and an opinion based on experience? most people find the contrast glaring and obvious.(one involves decisions based on fact, the other is the uncontested acceptance of an unsupported statement)

well... a bias is kind of like your kind of thoughts. you have the unfounded bias that all minorities are noble oppressed people and that the white majority is racist and oppressive. it isnt based on experience it is just what you think you need to say to look like the nice guy and get along with everyone and be in step with the herd.


[qb]My experience tells me how wrong you are, and when it comes to the experience of color in America, mine are more valid than yours.[qb]

well that kinda stands on it's own as far as nonsensical statements go -  no one's views on race are more or less valid than anyone else's. i have been the target of racism from supremicists who don't like the fact that i am in a mixed marriage and it almost cost me my life on a backwoods camping trip but that is not what qualifies me to speak about the black community. i went to an all black school as a kid due to bussing regulations where i was the minority, but that isn't what qualifies me either. simple observation and logic are enough.

what are the qualities of a successful race vs. those of an unsuccessful one? you don't need to be a minority to answer that - you just need enough fact and the ability to reach a conclusion regardless of how it makes people feel about you.

you see if i didnt base my opinion on experience then i would be like you: full of canned safe opinions that you digested from from the mainstream like a good tool.

have you ever had a negative opinion about any race other than white males? why not - because there was none to be had? OR because it wasn't fashionable and someone might not like you?

your opinions on race might make sense some day when you stop trying to please everyone and accept the truth for what it is, warts and all.

you can go to the gym every day and become strong or you can try to brainwash everyone and make it so the whole world is conditioned to say you are strong whether you are or not. you can make it so that if someone says you look flabby then they are attacked and ostracized by the rest of the community. when things go uncontested people eventually accept them as the truth whether they are or not. there is only one truth in this example and in life - you are strong or you aren't.