Cap1, part of the gaming mentality is unfortunately this kind of stupidity. Some pilots have to cover their weeny manliness (or maybe womanliness, who knows...) with Hindenburg sized egos.
If you kill them from a lower e-state, you were lucky.
If you kill them from a higher e-state, you're a picker.
If you kill them in anything but a P-40, you're a skillless noob in an uuberplane.
If you refuse to fight the fight on their terms, to their own planes strengths, you're (insert one of several popular words for "unmanly").
And regardless, for a number of pilots, no matter how they died they somehow died because they "were typing" or "AFK" when you did so.
Just shrug it off. If there's too much crud on 200, just detune for an hour or two.
If you're being pm'ed, just .squelch
If you're being pm'ed the wrong kind of crud, .report and then .squelch.
But most important - after doing either one - .laugh, then .forget. They aren't worth another moment of your time, or so much as another thought. If you think about it, you'll realize that the small potatoes really are such a small percentage of the players that the real crime is to let them cause you to lose sight of just how many class acts there are in the game.
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