Thanks, I was afraid someone wouldn't accuse me of selfishly looking out for my own self interests.
not trying to acuse you of being selfish, just pointing out that while your position has some insights others don't, it also comes with bias, in the form of financial incentive for this working out a certain way.
there's nothing wrong with tryng to make a good living, or working to get as much bussiness as you can for your company (school system).
there's also nothing wrong with a customer shoping around for a better value.
between my 3 kids (34 school years worth), and my own (13 years), I have 47 school years experience with public schools and I also have some insights into the problem.
the thing is when you have a problem with the way things run in a school you generally get one of 2 options.
the "I'm the expert, you're the ignorant parent, you have no idea whats best for your kid, if you'd only listen to me" patronising crap.
or the same blank stare the lady at the phone company gives you because you both know you can't take your bussiness elsewhere
not gov't mandated things, like class sizes, or problem kids forced on you, but things that should be adressed like-
a school sale with your amount of sales going to your grade, can you say 'grade buying', the resolution to this was my son was given the points as if he sold the product, the program was not changed or cancelled for the next year.
or, zero tollorance programs so that my daughter who suffers from cronic indigestion problems can't keep a roll of tums in her purse in middle school or she will be expelled for drug possesion, however some advertisers where willing to donate money if the school would send home their sample packs, they sent these home with all of the kids from the middle school, and the elementary my other daughter attended. the packs included (among other things tylonol, alka-slser, excederin, nyquil gel-caps, and 5 or 6 other drugs. to my way of thinking(considering the zero tolorance policy) every teacher in the school was, by the schools own deffinition, suplying drugs to their students.
and in these and a dozen other issues, blank stares and condescending attitudes.
so I see nothing wrong with it and am not afraid to admit, I am sefishly looking out for my own best interest and the best interest of my children. we need another choice