With all due respect Grünherz.
I think you've mistaken the more black and white world in the USA for 'decisiveness' and 'balls' and what have you not. American culture reflects this binary mode of thinking and you've bought it full out.
The lack of action you critizise can stem from an understanding that the world is a shade of grey. The 'never again' feeling will impose itself in the national psyche when something terrible has happened twice in less than 30 years.
Europe has been gearing up to be an economic, not military, superpower. In the coming decades I think we'll see a Europe becoming more closely knit together and incrementally more powerful. The US will not be the only big player on the field. No powerful civilization has lasted for particularly long and it seems change accelerates at the same pace as technological and societal advance.
From what I can gather from your posts you're a bit like a smoker that has quit - adament about how bad smoking is and how much better it is not to. Or perhaps more describing - a love affair. The lost love is seen in less than a flattering light and the newfound one through the rosen red glass of love.
I should also note that there are several instances when European nations have sent in troops to either restore order or recapture occupied territory. I also think it'd be dishonest of you to blame Europe for what happened in Yugoslavia - Germans, Danes, Swedes, Portuguise - none of them held the guns and comitted the atrocities. Too little was done, but you must remember who the trigger pullers were.
And what happened in Yugoslavia was nothing compared to what happened in WWI and WWII - and Yugoslavia was really BAD. That explains 'never again'.
You're quite biased and quite honestly I don't think you're in an emotional state to see things objectively. And you deserve me saying so for all the emotions you've let out. While I emphatizes with you I do not think broad generalisations and name calling is particularly beneficial.
Just try to put a hold on your worst outburst of name calling bro. it makes you look like a mindless idiot and I know from talking to you and reading many of your posts that you're anything but that. I liked you better when you used your brain more than your heart.
But then again, I'm a cold 'never again' indecesive European popsicle (yeah, it anoyes me to be called a popsicle). I don't mind you bringing up concrete issues describing what's wrong with Europe, but just saying 'yer rutabagas' is far below what your cognitive abilities can produce.
At any rate, just my opinion. Consider me a friendly European with some constructive suggestions
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