wow, thats just about the worst advice I've ever seen given...
This game is difficult, there ARE many resources to get better, most of the time it's as simple as asking. There is only 1 way to get better, and that is to fight people who are better than you, otherwise you learn nothing, and most likely degrade what skills you have, because you don't need to test them at all. Just leads to sloppy flying. Sure, you can take the path of a picker/vulcher, inflate scores in hopes that others might think you are the greatest cartoon airplane pilot to ever live. Then again, most you have been around a bit, will just think of you as a picker/vulcher. Some enjoy flying for rank, it is fun for them. Personally I find it quite boring, but that is just me. Don't ever think that because you/someone else has a "good" rank that you are automatically an ace. I think most you have been around awhile judge that by their encounters with you. b'n'z isn't gonna get you there.
For those who really want to get better, you need to put some effort in, and even then it will take time. You will still die lots, so don't get frustrated. There are many guys who would share information with you and spend time helping you learn, just make sure they actually now a thing or 2. (not like the orginal poster, troll or not). Above all, skill isn't the only thing, sitting back and just enjoying the game is not to be over looked.