Well,
Since someone has talked to him - and he apparently is of the mind that 'just a name, no big deal', I can see why some would be irritated.
J_A_B,
I never said anything would make it alright.
I don't want to argue with you. I am perfectly aware of the fact that some people are going to take things differently than others. All I was trying to do was to explain/show that just because some people aren't offended to the same degree by something that you are, it doesn't mean that they don't agree on other key points.
I am more aware of 'the average soldier of the German army' than you think - probably more aware than you are. I've interviewed several of them, and spoken to many more on a casual basis - having spent alot of time in Germany. Regular German army units commited attrocities as well. The commiting of attrocities did not require some special insignia on a uniform. Your attitude strikes me as a little naive - 'all SS evil, all non SS honorable'. It's not that simple in real life.
Also, I didn't compare the Waffen-SS and the U.S. Army Rangers. I compared the psychology behind the recruitment. There is a difference. My point was this (in this case) - you implied that every member of the Waffen-SS was a 'political creature', who somehow wound up in the Waffen-SS because of a total belief in Aryan superiority or some like nonsense. I know you are wrong.
You're also wrong (and again, a little naive I think) about U.S. Army Ranger 'recruitment/pre-ranger school' psychology. I know lots of Rangers. I've trained with some of them at various times. Alot of guys volunteer for Ranger school because they need to prove something to themselves, or 'Rangers get to do cool stuff like jump and it's easier to get into some of the cooler schools', etc. The norm is not someone who thinks to himself, at the age of 19, "I love my Nation so much that I will volunteer for Ranger school". In WW2 and in modern times guys in crack units fight on in difficult situations because of the tightness of the unit (i.e. they couldn't think of bailing on their buddies), not based on some political fanaticism. Japan in WW2 may have gotten close to that with Bushido, but that's another topic entirely.
I can't remember who said it, but the quote basically goes "When things get really bad you don't fight for freedom, or your country, or what's right or wrong - you fight for the guys to the left and the right of you".
Sometimes it's a young infantry guy who sees a really tight group of guys that exude confidence, and being young and impressed by that confidence he decides to try and be a part of that group.
I have talked to veterans of the Waffen-SS who said they tried to make the ranks of the Waffen-SS 'because my best friend from school made it'. That's not every case, but what you imply is an example of the minority of the cases. The eqiuvalent of what you are saying in modern times would be the Republican Party endorsing the U.S. Rangers, and because there was a Republican President in power everyone who had dreams of being a Republican senator decided to volunteer for Ranger school.
Even in WW2, political creatures didn't fare well in front line combat units. They don't today as well.
As for 'him flying his little virtual Nazi flag making it all right', I never implied that. What I was trying to tell you that your treatment of him should be based on what he's thinking.
For example - if he is a 9 year old, with zero knolwedge of WW2 due to the state of public education in the U.S.A. today, if he did get a chance to speak with you his thoughts following speaking to you would probably be 'man, that guy's an as*hole' (not trying to flame you there - just a figure of speech). You could actually accomplish something with him by speaking with him, giving him a couple of books to read, etc.
All hypothetical though, according to what Shane has discovered about his attitude on the topic.
If you really care about the legacy of the holocaust, ethnic cleansing, etc. (it appears you do, which is a good thing) you need to rethink how you deal with people.
The problem with your approach is this - say the guy with the offensive handle was a 9 year old with no clue of the actual history.
If he speaks to someone who says 'You cannot have that handle the Waffen SS were evil they were all fanatics of Hitler and commited attrocities left and right' and he then speaks to someone who is an apologist, revisionist, etc. you have set the revisionists up for an easy victory. Compared to the tone of your reply, a smart revisionist is going to be composed, articulate, and give the kid a reading list of intelligent sounding but biased reading material.
Better to tailor the explanation and any chastising to the person in question. A 9 year old with no formal education needs to be educated. A fat bigot wearing a swastika teeshirt needs to be told off (or worse).
I'll end it this way - I understand why you are offended, and I am offended by the same things you are in this case. But in my case, I consider the 'poster boys of facist Germany's evil acts' to be certain leaders who knew the big picture and actually believed in the goal/end result and worked at making that end result a reality.
No hard feelings here...
Mike/wulfie