What is happening is that those with slower internet connections are being rewarded , because ,iirc, the first computer to report the collision is charged with it and records damage. It doesn't matter who is really responsible, just who reports it first. That rots, because there are those who do use it as a tool. Something needs to be done, and unfortunately the only way is for both planes to go down, whether or not "you see the collision".
It's the fairest way to go about it, IMHO.